He thinks he is the best, he’s always right. Speaks loudly all the time. And never understood the word “personal space”. Interrupts me whenever i speak, and kept boosting about little things.
Recently i was down with a bad flu, and a bad sore throat. He totally didn’t understand what’s a sore throat and demanded me to reply whenever he spoke to me. It really hurts my throat whenever i speak.
And i’m not too sure if he has a hearing problem, but whenever anyone speak to him he’ll reply loudly “Huh? What?”. He hasn’t met my parents yet. But i’m not confident in letting them know him.
He has a bad gambling habit and his parents have been trying to stop him from gambling but so far nothing has been working. He is always losing and owing money. To the extend that he has to borrow from the loan sharks.
Furthermore, he is in the military now. When he gets discharged he should work or study. But he is interested in neither any. I am not sure if this man i’m with will have a future.
Someone please advise me what should I do.
Recently I’ve started to grown to dislike my boyfriend?
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- 3+ months ago by annabelle...
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- space, personal, grown, boyfriend, speak, right, always, word, time
Answers (3)
If you think it’s worth helping him, than try to find some help. Some people honestly don’t understand or refuse to understand and let impulses take over their normal behavior, which seems to be your boyfriends case. You said you didn’t think you had a future with him, and wondering weather or not you have a future with this person is the question you should ask before planning your next action. What seems best if you wanted to help him is to do it as a friend or get someone else to do it. Remember you’re not obliged to help him or put up with this behavior. This person seems like he does not learn from his consequences, at least not at the moment. You don’t have put up with these actions. I hope this helped and I wish you the best of luck.
If you trust your parents, introduce him as soon as possible to them.
Get in your closet and tear it apart and see if you can find your common sense because it's been lost for a long time.
Get into some serious therapy because you have no sense that you deserve better and have latched yourself on to a narcissist loser.
Its shocking that you are so blind to the bad behaviors. Nobody in their right mind would encourage you to stay with this piece of trash.
Get away from him. When he gets out of the military where he has rules to follow his bad behaviors are going to get a lot worse. And you'll be standing there for him to blame it on.