... phone from September to January. Then in January we met one another. Since January we have been dating and are very serious. He's a wonderful man and we get along great. From the first time we talked he told me he had 2 sons. And seems to be a great dad to them. About 2 weeks ago he got permanent custody of them. And even before that he was picking them up EVERYDAY and had them until bed time then they would go home. I have met them a few times. But the last week I've watched them because he goes to work at 5am. So the other day one of his sons told me that he's an uncle because his sister just had a baby. I really didn't ask him to many questions. But later that night I asked his dad how he was an uncle he acted dumb then said oh because my goddaughter just had a baby. Well earlier today I was watching them again and they mentioned having a sister again and also 2 other brothers...So I texted there dad at work and asked him if he had other children. At first he was avoiding my question and kept saying we will talk later. But I said no I wanna know now. Well then he told me yes he does. And that he actually has 5 kids and a granddaughter. So my question is should I leave him or let him explain. When he came to pick up the boys I just sent the boys outside to him. Since then he keeps calling and texting and I won't respond
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Okay well first all you always want to ask NY person those basic question in the the first months trying to get to know someone. That way ur . Aware of it .. And later on ur not surprised. R upset. Why. Ur finding out this now... So you can't be too mad but also some people consider. Telling a person slowly and patiently. Within the time so that they don't scare the person away so you mite wanna rethink if you like this person enoughto hear him out and accept it is whatever he willing to be honest and tell you and if ur not okay wwith it then you already know you gonna have to end it but ask him ll the question you want to know but in person so you guys both know more about each other