would anyone please help me? my life is just a lie first my friends teases me everytime by calling some name i dont care they always do jokes with me and troll me i give respect to them but when i say something they all reject and dont agree but i happily agree with them one of my friend he is somewhere like most teases me but today i danced like him in a fun way when we all was joking but he got angry and punched me but i didnt done anything and my parents they are never happy with me they hate me cuz i smoke next my younger brothers hate me too one of my brother of m age hadnt talked to me since 1 year but i dont tell anything the person i trusted had always break my heart i am always happy with what i have i always do fun too but my friends also dont accept me i show them what i am but they never every body hates me my life is just a lie what should i do i am fucked up with my life i want a new life :( any tips i just do smoke my parents hate that but i am addicted to that what to do (sorry for bad english )
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First, get a hair cut and clean clothes. Don't wear dark goth-looking clothes. Appearance is key when presenting your self to friends.
Make sure you shower and smell good at all times.
Next, workout and exercise daily. If you don't have a gym membership, workout at the park.
Then Quit smoking! It doesn't matter if you're addicted for life. Just quit. It's that easy.
This is a big thing...don't care about other peoples opinions if you do agree with them. Stick with your opinions and don't listen to others. Never do what someone tells you because you want to be friends with them, find your true friends.
Don't be self conscious, so wear and dress how you want to, not how your friends do.
Find what you like to do, set a goal, and do it.
1. Focus on your strengths. (2 Corinthians 11:6) While it’s good to be aware of your flaws, you also have much to offer. Recognizing your assets will give you the confidence you need to break free from a negative self-image and overcome loneliness. Ask yourself, ‘What are my strengths?’ Think of some talents or positive qualities that you possess.
2. Take a genuine interest in others. Start by showing interest in just a few people. “Simply asking others how they are doing or asking them about their work helps you to get to know them better,”
Tip: Don’t limit yourself to people of your own age.
3. Cultivate “fellow feeling.” (1 Peter 3:8) Even if you don’t agree with another’s view, patiently allow that one to talk. Dwell on points that you agree on. If you feel you must express disagreement on some issue, do so in a mild and tactful way.
Tip: Speak to others the way you would want to be spoken to. Needless bickering or teasing, insulting, or self-righteously condemning others simply alienates them. They will like you a lot more if you “let your utterance be always with graciousness.”—Colossians 4:6.
Want a new life? THEN QUIT SMOKING!. That's the first step to a change.
1. Focus on your strengths. (2 Corinthians 11:6) While it’s good to be aware of your flaws, you also have much to offer. Recognizing your assets will give you the confidence you need to break free from a negative self-image and overcome loneliness. Ask yourself, ‘What are my strengths?’ Think of some talents or positive qualities that you possess.
2. Take a genuine interest in others. Start by showing interest in just a few people. “Simply asking others how they are doing or asking them about their work helps you to get to know them better,”
Tip: Don’t limit yourself to people of your own age.
3. Cultivate “fellow feeling.” (1 Peter 3:8) Even if you don’t agree with another’s view, patiently allow that one to talk. Dwell on points that you agree on. If you feel you must express disagreement on some issue, do so in a mild and tactful way.
Tip: Speak to others the way you would want to be spoken to. Needless bickering or teasing, insulting, or self-righteously condemning others simply alienates them. They will like you a lot more if you “let your utterance be always with graciousness.”—Colossians 4:6.
Want a new life? THEN QUIT SMOKING!. That's the first step to a change.