Ok...My dad gambles a lot he promised me he would never do it again yesterday so the day past today i didn't go to bed so it was 4am and my dad was not home so i went to the place he gambles and how got in but when i did i saw my dad in the back went near him sad dad he turned and said what are you doing here now i said nothing he said lets go home and i said ok so we got home he acted like nothing happened so i didn't say anything he is acting really nice and stuff now do i forgive him?
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Sounds like you need to have a long, long conversation father-to-son with your dad.
Explain to him how you feel, ask him how he feels, then discuss what you're both going to do about it.
The fact that your dad promised you and then went ahead might suggest he might have a gambling addiction. There are plenty of places to get help for that if your dad's willing.
As to how to forgive your dad? That's up to you and how you feel.