Story:
Me and this guy use to date..but I had to break up with him cause we weren't allowed to be together my family wouldn't allow it. I am almost 18 and can't get away from this family so really I don't care when I go to college I am planning on getting at least 2 jobs and a small apartment. He is older than me but very much inlove. We call each other soulmates, cause it never meant to happen, and when it did we fell hard. We dated for about 2 years, before I had to break up with him. We were both hurt, heart broken..thinking we could never see each other again. So he ended up deleting me on his messenger the only place we could talk. I found him on facebook thinking he wasn't on yahoo anymore and found out he deleted his account. I could tell he did it cause hes trying to clear me from his head, so told him I would just leave him alone, he told me to stay. But when I seen his relationship status online it crushed me. Maybe he is trying to feel something again like I was trying to do, to get me off his mind. We have started talking but only very few times, he gave me his phone number so now I text and call.
He moved to another state. He hardly text me, and when he does he says very little. I don't know how to keep the conversation going. I want to start out like friends and how can I when he hardly replies. I feel bad talking to him cause he has a girlfriend and I don't want to ruin that relationship even though I really love, and care for him. I don't know what to do. But all I know is that I love him, I have dated for years with many people and I never feel the same way as I did with him. He is planning on moving in with her because right now hes got no other place to go. But when I am 18 were gonna meet up since I will be 18 and probably be kicked out of the house and theres no say so cause I will be an adult.
What should I do, I don't know how to talk to him to keep the conversation going when he hardly replies, and I am scared of texting him cause he has a girlfriend and I don't ruin relationships. How can I get him to talk? His zodiac is pieces.
I feel we have so much to catch up on. And can't get him out of my head. I wonder if he still feels the way he did about me he acts like it but then hardly replies.
Problem with ex..what should I do?
Responses (3)
Its hard to let go of someone that you have deep feelings for .. But I think Its time for you to move on, as you can see he moved on to another state and another woman. This is how I feel if it's meant to be then you and him will meet again and be together . But at this moment you need to focus on bigger and better things . And go with the flow hunn
he probably is trying real hard not to cause problems for you and you the same cause of the girlfriend he has but you know if its real love there will never be anything that will tear you apart that's probably why he wants to keep his distance after you turn 18 text him and see where he is in life and then go from there