Ok so since this is anonymous I will ask here. I have a big problem. I am 22 and I have never had a real relationship. I was taken advantage of when I was younger and nobody in my family knows. I am afraid to tell my mother. Another girl was taken advantage of by the same guy and my mom brings the subject up sometimes and says that she's a liar and can't believe that anyone would say such things. I am afraid to tell her because I am afriad what she'll do. Also, I believe that because of that incident I am afraid to get close to people. I went on a date with someone I've liked for over 4 years and all of a sudden my walls went up so fast...what do I do?