... losing who I am. I've recently moved back to my home town 2 years ago after being down south with my boyfriend & our child and ever since one gotten back I've been so unhappy even though my other family is here. I had friends here but to be honest they suck I have friends down south but I feel like since I'm not there they are forgetting about me. When we were down south my boyfriend, child & myself were honestly happy i just moved back on a whim cause i missed my other family.I'm just so lonely and I'm honestly forgetting what happiness is please help what would you do move back south or put your happiness aside for your other family?!?
Problem - My life is so discombobulated, I just don't know anymore I feel like I'm losing myself,?
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- 3+ months ago by blueeyedg...
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Honestly, i'd move back down South. This is not only affecting you, this is affecting you boyfriend and your kid as well. You mentioned that everyone was actually happy when you were back down South. You shouldn't spend the rest of your life unhappy because you'd feel bad if you moved away again. I mean you did it once, your family may have missed you but they turned out fine. I also think that your family would want you to be happy too. I obviously don't know them but if they cared about you and you brought it to their attention that you aren't happy, they would let you do what you want to do. You have one life to live. Live it to the fullest, do what makes YOU happy because if you focus on self happiness it's going to pay off in the long run. But if you focus on other people's happiness and not your own, you're only going to dwell.