... committed to a girl since 3 years...i hv seriously fallen in love with him..tell me wht to do..i am so much confused
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Absolutely nothing....these are the times you need to step back. Somewhere down the line, if for whatever reason he is no long with the girl and you still feel the same you can approach the subject again. If you do it now you just create a very awkward situation and most likely loose a friend.
It sounds like you are the commited one, not him. Do you like being taken advantage of? If you need an instant, though probably permanent answer, engage him in conversation, and before anything else happens, simply tell him with all your courage, "If you don't drop her, you don't get me". We all go on loving people with whom we have parted. We're all better off free than in a relationship where we are distrustful, jealous, angry, and even vengeful. So find out, get out, or welcome him if you come out on top. Don't fall for delaying actions, distant promises, or his " beautiful flashing brown eyes" [blue]. If not his two-timing ways, find someone who wants only you, they're out there. And, the majority of men, including me, have attempted a two-timing episode. I emerged, guilt ridden, lost them both, Love them today, 30 yrs later. But the woman who confronted me, taught me a real life-lesson. Stayed with the next desirious woman for 28 yrs. That ended. But naturally.
