Pregnant and should I tell the man I am having an abortion?

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I have been seeing the guy for almost a year now and he is married with a kid and I am married as well with no kids.  My husband can not have children so know that it is the other guys.  I have not really talked to him because we broke it off.  Should i tell him i am pregnant and getting an abortion or just best that he never knows?

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Ye he has the right to know!

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Both man has to know your pregnant. Your husband first, you can talk to him and tell him your situation, it hurts but he could not give you a child so what's the point of abortion? You can talk to him heart to heart.

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Really tough call, you are damned if you do and damned if you don't. Do what's best for you, then ask God for forgiveness.

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If you are getting an abortion (and it seem you have already made that decision) then it is my believe you do not have to share this with anyone.  However, if you choose to keep the baby then both have the right to know as this child will also be in their lives.

Pregnant and should I tell the man I am having an abortion?

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