Ok so I am 6 months pregnant with my second child for the same man and I am very stressed and depressed. At this moment I'm living with my mom and he was staying here as well until like 3 days ago I found out he was cheating so I kicked him out. I didn't really want to kick him out because I didn't feel right but for the pass month he has been sleeping out every night so I figured he had somewhere else to stay. We kept on getting into arguments about him going out to where I went in his phone and saw him texting other women. He have cheated on me before in my previous pregnacy with my first child. Ive been with him for 5 years. Out of those five years he's been to jail twice and did time two years in one jail time and 1 year in another jail time. I have been there for him throughout the whole jail time. I put money on the phone but wasn't sending money because I wasn't working and I didn't have anyone to watch my daughter and I wasn't going to put my child in a day care at a young age not being able to speak since I've worked at daycares before and didn't like what I saw going on in those daycares. Anyways! His friend was sending money sometimes but He came out and everytime we get into an argument he says I wasn't there for him I only came 6 times to see him n didn't write him but my thing was I spoke to him once out the day. Anyways! We were suppose to get a place together next month but I guess he'l be doing it alone since I kicked him out. I wanted to move out of my mothers house so bad because me and my mom do not get along and she's stressing me out just the same way my baby father is. She doesn't like to watch my daughter uses me, picks fights with me while I am pregnant and don't care about my pregnacy. Right now I have no money n I wanted to move out before this baby is born I wanted to see if I can get free housing but I don't know where and how to go about it. With me and my babyfather not being together he still wants to come by n see my daughter I'm fine with but I just need to know what to do about him and about me getting FREE HOUSING before my baby is born. I feel like I'm going to loose it in my house and then this boy everything is just to much.
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Well first things first you need to go to public housing or you can apply to get a apartment.Then if you want you can put your baby up for adoption if you need to then go to community services apply for medical,foodstamps and cash you can get help.As far as your daughter goes i would be careful cause you can get a std cause hes sleeping around and you want to do the best for your daughter file for child support make him take care of his responsibletys and don't take him back he will never stop cheating.