I am just approaching 11 weeks pregnant after two previous m/c's and my boyfriend wants to go to a house party where there will be drugs going round like weed and prob cocaine. I feel he should want to spend it with me and bump and show that immature stage of his life is now over and maybe we have small gathering at home or go out for a meal. I don't want him to not enjoy it with me though. Feel very sad that he would rather go to said party and leave me alone at home. I tried to make plans but everyone is busy. What do I do?
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well kinda tells you where his prioritys lay and your probably right about the drugs because if you go to a house party thats normally what they are up to it really must not matter to him that your home by yourself as long as he can go be with his friends thats the sad part you should get a couple movies some cider meaning the non alcoholic kind and celebrate by your lone some it doesn't really matter i suppose can tell you its a sad time that he couldn't spend it with you
We spent it together! :-) thanks for responding happy new year!
Yes this is the problem I'm 29 so not a child and he's only a year younger, I can't make him want to spend it with me but I do strongly feel that if he goes it will make me feel annoyed towards him causing problems in the long run. I can't imagine leaving myself alone and miserable on nye if I was him. I've suggested getting a spread of food and inviting a couple friends over. Will see what he decides as it will tell me a lot.