Just found out i'm three weeks pregant, i'm 15, my Mother said if i ever get pregnant she will make me have a abortion, In SA are parents allowed to make underage kids have a abortion or make me give the baby, also what do u think, what is your opinion, i'm scared!!!!!
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- 3+ months ago by Iwantthis...
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Just found out that i'm three wks pregnant, i'm 15 ( soon to be 16), my lovely mother said IF i ever mange to get pregnant, she will make me get a abortion, or make me give MY child up,i guess my question is can a mother make her underage kids have a abortion or make me give the baby up or make me MOVE out, can she legally make me do that, IN SOUTH AUSTRALIA (Adelaide) and could she kick me out, btw i strongly disagree with abortion so would kill myself before she could
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No sweety it's all up to you, your the one pregnant, you maybe only young but if you think your ready to be a mummy then keep it it's all up to you, no one can really tell you what to do your almost 16 an in my opinion abortion is murder, I could never bring myself to have an abortion it's wrong in so meany ways, if you do go with the abortion it's not good for you, you will be thinking about it all the time asking your self why you did it an you will go into depisson an things really bad, really do hope your mums changes for you an doesn't make you kill your bubba, don't be scared everything will work out witch ever way you go, good luck with it all hope everything turns out the way u went xx
first of all the decision is completely yours your mum can obviously have her opinion but in the end you decide
second, look at the big picture in my opinion you need to think about this
is your family in a financial situation where you can? is your relationship with your boyfriend in a good place where he will be a good dad and not leave you (sorry if me saying that hurts you i just need to cover everything) can you handle it? are you sure you want to become a mum now i know it will hurt giving up your baby but think about it do you want to live your life as a mum this early missing out on so much i'm 16 so i can't really talk all wise but make sure you talk with your boyfriend it is his baby too his kid i know it comes out of you but talk with him about it make sure he knows dont shut him out dont shut anyone out
the choice is 100% yours in the end but please think about the future and the now
good luck and if you need anon help where you dont know the person im always here to listen or help out
An 3 weeks is a bit too late to get one now