I broke up with my best friend last year and ever since, whenever I text any of our mutual friends, they don't respond. Is she taking bad about me behind my back cuz I don't want to falsely accuse he of doing so. P.s I chat with them from time to time as we are not that close.
Plz answer me!?
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- 3+ months ago by No name144
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- friend, text, broke, taking, friends, answer, years, bad, best friend
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The same situation happened to my friend..she was best friends with my ex best friend (who was two-faced) f until she noticed all her guy friends stopped talking to her.telling them lies(also my friends boyfriend was friends with the guys too..)and basically it ruined the relationship between my friend(and her bfs relationship with the boys too..) but they dont care.but my guess is that she probably is talking bad bout you..because why would most of friends stop talking to you for no reason and also do they talk to your ex friend?u can tell by that too..hope this helps.
Girls are catty so she's probably talking bad. A lot of girls will do that because they feel they can't be friends with one person if they are friends with their other friends. It's a really pathetic cycle and I hate it about girls. (being a girl myself) I find it a lot easier to be friends with guys or girls who are very much like me.
Since they aren't answering and you both were friends with them: yes, she probably told them (with a little exaggeration) what you did and is playing the victim. She's probably told the friends how you are the bad guy and hurt her so much on purpose. You need to get your ex-friend and have a chat, even if the room might explode. Tell her to be brutally honest with you. Bring some tissues in case waterworks come because it probably will. Go over why you two split and how it doesn't have to be a battle of friends. Try to get her to see it from a 3rd person point of view. She might not want to listen, but being totally alone gets people to come out and say it all. REMEMBER THIS: Keep a cool head and don't explode. I know this may be really hard for you and she might try to yell at you. But if you keep extremely calm and talk about your feelings, she might just have sympathy and talk sensitively.