Hi happy new year's eve,   can anyone give me advice on this one because I am a little bothered by it and want to know if it is just me or is it a sign that I need to take heed to. Well a month ago I decided to get a roommate for financial reasons.   I am a female with a male roommate that moved in about a month ago. So anyway im doing this for temporary and business only, I have a partner who also has his own place who I have huge. feelings for. Well back to my question, Is there anything wrong with asking your room that you need the house for a day (new years) so that you and your partner can have alone time for the holiday.  And I know for a fact that this guy have places he can crash for a night because he has sisters and parents and he was staying at one of those places before coming here.  When I did ask him he seem to get this attitude and I was not comfortable with that.  Plus on christmas I asked him if he was going over his family house for the holidays since he said his daughter was going to be there and he did not. He stayed in all day with me ( creepy) and I am a person who like space especially if you are just a roomate. But Im just hoping I am not dealing with a roomate who may have  issues like - stalker or something or mental. He doesn't hang out that much with friends or go anywhere on his day off, and he is 24 years of age which is young to me. Should I be aware of somethinng or am I just paranoid.  He doesn't hang out that much with friends or go anywhere on his day off, and he is 24 years of age which is young to me not have an girlfriend or hang out. He also knows I am involved so recently I asked him if he can tone down the jokes like calling me beautiful and asking me stupid stuff like : can I lay in your bed, and can I give You a massage, even though he tries to clean it up and say he is joking, it is uncomfortable to me. And when I brought this up he got an attitude and kept on talking with out letting it go when I stated I was just addressing my concerns. Plus he drinks beer a lot and when he does that is when the weird questions come.  Should I be aware of somethinng or am I just paranoid.  If anyone can answer this it would sincerely appreciate it.  Thanks.  Points for Best Anwser !