ok so im getting married, my dad left when i was 18 to go to another state for 6months to help an uncle with his bussiness, he was still with my mum, i had some troubles and went to stay with him, he was callin my mum all the time and sayin he comin home for xmas, xmas come and he told me he had a girlfriend, mum didnt know so i had to tell her he wasnt coming home broke her heart and mine, anywho dad n i have not go along very well with punch ons and lots of fights i dont see my dad and only hear from him 2 times a year if im lucky, i do love my dad btw but i also hate him, he has a new wife, my mum has a partner which i really like and get along with very well and have since before they hooked up, he has been there for me for anything and everything, i love him like a dad, brother uncle, basically im struggling with if i should have who to walk me down the isle. i dont want to offend my dad by having my step dad do it but really want him to, but my dad has said and done things that bad that to be honest if i put my step dad and dad next to each other would be a disaster! and i know they couldnt put it aside as my dads a bit of a smart arse and my step dad dont take no crap. what the hell am i supposed to do, my bro n i dont take cos of a girlfriend he has who has lied and caused trouble. do i have my dad walk me down and have my step dad as a groomsmen??? someone please help im torn!!!