Please help me to deal people with alcolic addict who lost his wife and was infected by HIV(AIDS) ?

it sounds like he is having alot of issues surrounding his medical issues but when he lost his wife that was to much to handle and some how he got the hiv diagnosis hiv carries alot of unwanted other issues i would see if someone can help him through mental health thats cause he really needs this if you can relate to him on his level he might come around i think he needs or still is mourning his wife but he probably is set to wanna be with her and doesn't care how he gets there so unless he see beyond that it might not happen