So I got black peoples hair which is the worse but i think it's 3c/4a and its at my shoulder length and I just want it to be in a ponytail and long I don't even know how to grow it. When I was in elementary school I always had my hair straighten and it was at my waist my mom always cut it and now it's short my sister and I are trying to see who can grow there hair the longest but since I'm 12 and she is 17 her 4c Afro got really BIG! I just don't get it please help p.s. I do have long black hair for my Age I guess so I'm gonna be be happy for that and I never wore weaves wigs or extensions not even a relaxer thank you