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I feel like I've wasted my whole ife!
I'm a 24 year old girl and I've been diagnosed with multiple sclerosis!
I can't work or do casual other tasks around the house!
Everyone around me just seems to be doing much much better
I have got a degree but I performed very bad in it!:(
I just feel like my whole life is ruined!
Do u have any suggestions of what I can do in life with my qualifications and poor health??
What degree do you have? And can you tell us some things you are good at? List as many as you can think of and we can try to help you figure out what you can do! :) I also have a friend with MS, and he struggled with self esteem, but eventually he got into reading and making music on his computer.
Economics- I've got experience working in a bank but left now after 2yrs...and btw I'm just going through a major Ms attack! I can't walk or anything oooh this is soo terrible!!..will it ever heal??
I am good at talking to people/ presenting my work n talent buttt all my talent has gone!:(
Your talent is not gone!! Try not to be so hard on yourself. If you beat yourself up about it, it will give other people reason to do the same. I don't know where you live so I can't specifically suggest jobs available in your area as well as local laws and social services that can help you out.
I would advice to you to join an MS forum so you can be in touch with other people with MS. I am sure they will have more insight for you in terms of job-seeking options as well as tips on dealing with your condition as they will have dealt with it themselves. If you join a forum, you will have constant communication with a lot of people who share your experiences and you can make a lot of friends.
Also do some self-assessment and figure out whether you are ready to start working right now or if you need to take a break for a bit. If you don't like to go outside, there are online jobs you can try like tutoring or teaching English or other subjects over the internet. You could also ask around if there are any transcription jobs you can get into since many of the transcription jobs can be done at home. Another option is a job that involves computer-technical skills like doing spreadsheets or maybe writing/editing articles if you're into that.
Generally, try start off with a good mindset because it is a very important thing to acknowledge your condition and to NOT let it overwhelm you. Don't worry if you can't find a suitable job option right away. Don't forget to lean on your family and friends for moral support :)
Thanku soo much for this long, lovely comment! I feel much much better today after takin 2 steroid dosages -3 still have 3 more to go...,
I think I've decided what I wana do....I don't want to work, I want to relax at home and go and travel the world
I'm not the only person in the world with this condition, others may have it more serious! For now i will enjoy my life like a normal human being, n wait for a cure!
I also hope to look after my child, which I hope to get soon!
Thanks for all ur help tho bananana!
I would like to work n drive... I can't drive bc I cant c the road properly with my bad eyesight n I can't work bc I don't have the strength etc
Also I can't go back to school bc. I'm unable to write n read books:(
Butt it's ok I'll find something to do I guess....?
O n I really want a healthy child but that just totally doesn't seem possible....