I, need help understanding my life. I don't understand why most people reject me before they know me, and im not sure how long I can keep going on with my life. Im on the edge and I feel so deppressed and alone. So what's wrong with me? What to I have to change about myself so that people will accept me?
Responses (3)
What you can do
1. Focus on your strengths. (2 Corinthians 11:6). Ask yourself, ‘What are my strengths?’ Think of some talents or positive qualities that you possess.
2. Take a genuine interest in others. Start by showing interest in just a few people. “Simply asking others how they are doing or asking them about their work helps you to get to know them better"
> Tip: Don’t limit yourself to people of your own age.Remember, too, that conversation is an interchange, not a monologue. People appreciate good listeners. So if you tend to be shy, remember—you don’t have to carry the whole conversation!
3. Cultivate “fellow feeling.” (1 Peter 3:8) Even if you don’t agree with another’s view, patiently allow that one to talk. Dwell on points that you agree on.
I am sorry that you are feeling so bad. There is someone who cares much for you. That is your Creator. To him you are very valuable, you need to see your value in his eyes. Then you start to draw good people towards you. Please go to this website jw.org and click on left hand top of the home page on Bible teachings. Then click on any one of the topics on the left hand side. You can also go to the bottom of the home page and click on the downloads button, and go to books, and download for free the book,"questions young people ask, answers that work . ". Volumes one and two. They are great!!! All the best....