m having some confusion which I can\'t clear it with any one. So I wanted your help to clear it. I love one girl she is also loving me. But she is like not caring. She wanted to marry with me but she is not like normal girl. She can\'t even recognize my voice. She just want to do whatever she wants to do. When I tell any thing she just tell after marriage. My relationship is distance relationship. She ask me every thing. But she don\'t give me her attention. I did so many things for her. But she is like not care. Nearly 1 year passed. First first we use to talk chat whole day. But now she just see my msgs and give reply when she wants to give. she can\'t even give me lil attention. I asked her so many time if she don\'t want then we can give up. But that time she tells no. She tells she love me and she is so happy with me. So if she is happy why she is not caring.? Why she doesn\'t give me attention ? One thing she is from small place with ok family. And I belong to reputed family from metropolitan city.this thing I don\'t know matters or not but She is not doing any thing which I can\'t expect right ??? She is really loving me or ????
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Hello dar13,
In the way I see it, she is totally neglecting you, and I think you deserve better, but to find out if she loves you too, I would do the following:
Talk to her: just be honest about your feelings, and tell her she needs to give you more attention. (Maybe she just wants to marry, and it she doesn't care if she will marry someone she loves or not)
If, after this everything turns to normal and she still doesn't care, she probably gives not too much about you. Then, the best thing you could do is breaking up with her. It will be hard, but you will discover if she loves you back : you see, if she loves you, she will do anything to get you back. Believe me. If she doesn't, maybe you guys where not meant to be together, and hopefully,after you have moved on after a while, you will find a girl that gives you as much as attention and affection as you want, and loves you just the way you are, because you deserve it.
Good luck,
Celia.
Please give me some solutions to get attention of her.
Hello!
Unfortunately she sounds like a Catfish, someone who is not who they seem. They may respond to your feelings for a very long time, but because she refuses to give you the attention you deserve, she or he is probably using it as an outlet and may be doing this to others. It sounds suspicious, I would be careful and not give her any money if she asks for it, especially if you have told her many times that you are well off. It seems very unhealthy for the body and mind.
How can I breakup .. I really love her. Please give me some solutions so I can get her attention not full but that much which I deserve.
Ok then
First draw her attention towards you
2nd show how you love her and cear her
If this two doesn't work means act like you are avoiding her
I think girls can't tolerate men avoiding her then she knowns the pain and she start loves you and cares you
Thank you Celia,