Hello! So about 2 year ago (I was 19) I got pregnant for the first time, we found out on a Sunday I was after multiple test. I had called the doctor to see what to do with appointments and everthing so I had an appointment set up. 6 days after that I started to bleed very heavily, even on my period I barley bleed so I instantly began to worry and went to the ER. come to find out I had lost my baby. The doctors assumed I was about 8 weeks. I spent a few hours in the ER and was sent home with a doc appointment in a week to check up. After I left the hospital I was in extreme pain. (even on my peiod I have never once had a cramp). The pain was so unbearable I had to crawl to the bathroom, trying to pee put me in tears it hurt so bad. I was on the couch for about 2 weeks. If I laughed, cried or sneezed I felt like I was going to die it was so painful. Has anyone else experienced this? My doctor said it's normal to lose your first one, but now I'm terrified to even try again
I'm scared to go through the emotional and physical pain again.
I'm told by many people they're miscarriage didn't hurt. So I'm curious as to why mine did..