Overweight - I'm a 52 yr old female and I feel like I don't satisfy my man. He is fit and only 4 yrs

Well sometimes when we are getting 50s we have a tendency to not perform as great others have no problem ask your partner if there's anything that you could do to enhance you predictability ask him if he is happy with the way things are going you could to start a exercise program that he can be involved in to help you if he had a problem I would think he would speak up also you could cut your calories in half this can help you also.