... you doesnt matter right? Unless it's maybe something bad that you need to change of course. But anyways, What I really want to ask is if you're the type to care abouT what a girl or a guy thinks of you if you, let's say were attracted to them. Do you just let lose and be yourself and don't give a damn or do you to some extent feel so shy and intimidated that u start to 'hate' yourself and believe that the person might not like you! And don't you sometimes feel that "more" attracive people (in what the society sees what ugly and what's not) gets treated differently? And yeah we've all heard that "be confident"-talk but you can't lie that sometimes it's very hard to be it when something/someone just gotta ruin it for you. I just want to know if there might be people out there who relates to me
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To start off, psychologically, once someone hears what someone else thinks of them, they will automatically try to act to better that impression, whether good or bad. If someone thinks you are a hard worker, the next time they are around, you will try to work twice as hard to impress them more. If someone thinks you dress sloppily, next time you will dress up for them. Its mainly just a psychology thing. The people who play it off and "don't give a damn" are physically trying to bypass this reaction, which isn't bad either.
There is actually a science behind attractiveness. People's personal preferences (i.e blond over brown hair) usually does not affect how they treat someone. In society, we automatically trust people more if they have a symmetric facial structure. These people are usually the more attractive ones to society, so yes they are treated different. But not having a symmetrical face shouldn't stop the way they treat you neccesarily. There could just be a physical feature in you that they have had a bad rep with and, without realizing it, disreguard you.