i haven't talk to my girlfriend in 3 weeks (been avoiding her).
i bought a house without telling her.
she buys me stuff for the house, i gave it back to her.
i told her she gets on my nerves.
when she comes over, i let her stay for 2 hours.
we only go see a movie.
we never go shopping together.
i keep "blowing her off" (canceling or not showing up to events with her).
i don't tell her what's going on in my life or including her in important decisions.
i'm never there for her.