Ok. So I have been seeing this guy for about 2 months now. the sex is awesome...probably the best I've had...like ever! I don't really like having a lot of control when it comes to things and I love that he's older and tends to lead a little bit more..
Recently he's started asking what it is that I want. I really don't care...because everything so far has been amazing and I wouldn't change a thing! He tied me up and blindfolded me the other night and it was wonderful. The other day he asked how I felt possibly tying him up.
I have never been with someone that A) wants me to do that B) is giving me options of how I'd like him to please me, and C) is asking me to have control for a night over them. It's all a tad overwhelming, but still entirely enjoyable!
My question...finally I know ;)....if I do tie him up (we have a "date" tomorrow night after we both get off work so I kinda wanna have some ideas to go in with), what exactly am I supposed to do? Please no laughing at me. I am 25, he's 35. I met my ex-husband at 19 and got divorced last year. This is the first person since my ex-husband that I've actually had some sort of relationship with and the first person ever that's asked me to take control over them. Not like a total Dom situation but just some fun.
But, what do I do? Or what are some ideas that I can use to grab his attention and take control a little bit more? I'm a tad mortified asking this so please be gentle ;)
Thanks in advance to those that are being nice!!