I'm struggling with this, and I have been for years and I don't know what to do anymore.

I'm 22 and have a problematic home life. I have an overbearing and controlling mother, and pretty much have no freedoms. She doesn't even let me grow a beard, or go out or have friends. My family argue alot, like everyday, and I can't stand it anymore.

I recently got into a relationship, and it's starting to cause problems, as I can bearly seem him or stay over at nights. They say that they want me to live with him, and that they will support me, and I do want to live with him and I do love him, but we are still a new couple, and don't know if leaving is the best action.

If I left, it would be sudden, and during the middle of the night, and it'll probably mean I'll never see my family again, as I'll be pretty much dead to them.

But I also feel guilty, as I have another brother and sister who also ran away from home, and I don't want to put her through it again, but I can't take her she talks to me (she belittles and insults and has to have her own way, or else she screams and throws a fit). She makes us do tons of work, and then tell's me how I don't do anything, and she constantly tells me how I have no friends and all I have is her.

I don't know what to do. I need advice.