Ok, so I’ve known that I’m a lesbian since high school, and I’ve been in love with the same girl for the past year. The problem is that she claims to be straight as a pole. But my gaydar goes haywire anytime I see her or think about her (I have a freakin accurate gaydar). She doesn’t have a problem with gay people, when I told her I was a lesbian, she said it was “cute”... I really think that she is gay, or at least bisexual… I mean there are telltale signs, like the short hair, Doc martens, lesbian sandals like the ones in Modern Family, Tegan & Sara, and she likes lots of movies where homosexuality is present… oh, and pictures of half-naked girls on facebook and so on. When it comes to me, we are good friends, we talk, sometimes she touches my arm, or shoulder, and holds eye contact for a very long time. But sometimes she is very distant, and avoids all kind of contact. It’s like she’s running away from me, but that can’t be, since there are times when she’s very friendly, and all clingy… Today I asked her about this, and she told me it's not my fault, but for a while she was kind of suspecting that I like her, and got confused (well, that didn't stop her from being touchy-feely sometimes). I lied to her, and told her it's not true, and she said that her answer would be "no" anyway... But all that time she was very flustered, and all shy and smiling and looking at her feet and fidgeting... So my question is, is there a chance that she likes me? Maybe she doesn't realize, or denies it... is this possible?
Please help :(