im not trying to be rude but why is your wife having sex with him if shes married to you? i just want to know. as for your question she cant make him wear one. its his body. maybe she tried to get him to wear one but he wouldnt use one.
well if you are new at this kinda thing and didn't know to much it probably happened cause he didn't tell her maybe said it wasn't right if she told him she didn't want this to happen that's where condoms do work sometimes it might have ripped