... find out it was for a man from her work that she had been nailing for about a year (about the same time I sold my lawn care company and got my real estate license) I have always been the primary care giver for the youngins (6 &2) so business was never exactly booming. In the next couple months I should be making about 2/3's her yearly salary.
2 weeks ago she moved back in and says she ended the affair, he got all pissed said he was done but she is obviously still thinking about him and doesn't want my touch much. I know that if we continue this path he will fade and we will rebind (we are making love about one/twice week since a day before I found out about om).
My question is: how do you survive the minutes and days waiting for smooth waters!? We are not the same religion and she has no interest in therapy (I've read 4 books and every web site imaginable spoken to many pastors and meet with a divorce group) she wants to rebuild but she won't do the home work, she is also still working the same job.. How do I make it through the day...?