Angry or rude outbursts
Verbal threats
Swearing
Pushing or throwing objects
Bullying
Threat/infliction of physical force to self
Shaming, humiliation
Demeaning comments
Spiteful behavior, backstabbing behavior
Constant distorted or misrepresented nitpicking/faultfinding
Censuring in front of others
Medical “education by humiliation”
Insults or insensitive jokes or remarks
Misogynistic
Unreliable
Overbearing
Arrogant
Patronizing
Sarcasm or taunting
Hostile comments
Unreasonably critical
Negative comments
Failure/ Refusal to do tasks;
Constant complaints about tasks
Deliberate delay in responding
Go out of the way to make you look bad while acting innocent in public
Undermine status and value;
setting someone up for failure
Failure/ Refusal to support
Intentionally communicating incomplete information or a complete lack of.
Staring or glaring
Zoneing out.
Refuses to be affectionate.
Sighing
Refuses to add any input on important matters.
god like complex
Making gestures, pointing
Making faces, raising eyebrows, rolling eyes
Positioning body to exclude/ impede
lack of regard for the other's freedom and space
lack of respect for the other's time.
lack of attentiveness to the other's needs.
lack of consideration of boundaries
Unapproachable
need to always be right
Constant defensiveness
manipulation
Blames EVERYONE FOR ALL his problems
minimizing feelings
nagging and criticism
Name-calling.
Derogatory “pet names.”
Character assassination.
Yelling.
Patronizing
Complete and totally disregard for the well-being of family in exchange for job.
Unrealistic expectation for EVERYONE to do EVERYTHING.
Unrealistic expectation that EVERYONE should know what, when, where, why, and how he wants.
Public embarrassment.
Dismissiveness.
“Joking.”
Sarcasm.
Insults of your appearance.
Belittling your accomplishments.
Put-downs of your interests.
Pushing your buttons.