My wife has been struggling with college for the last three plus years. I watch her every day try as hard as she can and still fail classes. She's tried switching majors and it didn't help. Tonight she got another failing final grade and has decided to just give up on all her hopes and dreams of a college degree. The problem is that she isn't stupid. Not even a little bit. I know she's intelligent because I talk to her ever day. I can say this confidently because I recently graduated with honors from UCLA in microbiology. I don't struggle with school at all. This makes it even harder for her to accept it when I try to comfort her and tell her everything will be ok. I don't know what to say to her to make her feel better. I always support her and tell her she can do it. I tell her not to give up. But she still does poorly. It's like she just doesn't retain knowledge very well even though she was an honor student before college. How can I help her? How can I best support her even though I really have no understanding of what she's going through psychologically since I've never had this problem. What would you do?