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My stepmom is a mean woman. when i was 6, she whipped me with a belt and grounded me for DOING NOTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!! If i could whip her with a belt as payback....i definetly would. how can i deal with her?
My parents are divorced. they've been like that since i was an infant. i've been depressed all my life because of that and my stepmom. i always have been stressed out everyday i come home from school. PLEASE HELP ME!
Added 3+ months ago:
i was actually 5 when she did that.
It depends on where you live, nowadays in many parts of the world you can seperate yourself from her by law. Then many people will be willing to adopt you in many countries. You can sue her for child abuse and can probably get money from that and some revenge of some sort. So what about telling a trustworthy teacher at school?
yes, my mom is alive. i told my teacher before and didn't care. she was shocked, but didn't care. i have a mom and a stepfather, and a month ago, she said "I AIN'T MAKIN YOU BREAKFAST! MAKE YO OWN FOOD OR STARVE!" she swears at my dad a lot, and me, of course. she my mom's, me's, my stepfather's, my cousins, my uncle's, my grandparents', and my mom's families' guts. help with a better answer please?
Well nowadays it's against the law in many parts of the world to wip someone with a belt to punish them. I would expect a nice teacher to do something about it, they probably would get fired for not doing so in my country if their boss found out. What's the country? The law in a lot of countries is corrupt. There has to be a teacher that cares at school so try to find that teacher or try the principal if the principal is uncorrupt. There's always good people around but there's many bad people too. Even today there's people that think that wiping someone is the right way to make people learn but it's very rare here. Here it's easy to find someone to take care of someone that doesn't have a safe home or is uncomfortable with their situation at home. Friends do it very often here. So find the nicest person and ask them, somebody that cares has to be nearby, there has to be.
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i also got grounded for doing nothing. HOW COULD ANYONE GET IN TROUBLE 4 DOIN NUTTIN?! i live in america.
She probably has a lot of mental illnesses and has to be mentally unstable for taking out her anger so cruely on someone who did nothing to deserve it. In America there's got to be a lot of people nearby that would care if you're living with a very abusive person. Talk about it to someone that is a nice person and don't leave any crucial details. That's what needs to be done. There's even free lawyers if there's a true crime like whipping a child badly that was committed. I imagine the easiest way out of it is a talk with an adult who cares and can find someone that understands how the law works. Why not talk about it to a friendly and resourceful adult? Ask again until you find someone, so many people.
i did. didn't care.
Ask another person that is decent or better with this stuff, you asked the wrong person.
Try the police or a lawyer.
Police are good for this, sorry but some messages are not sending so I have repeated myself a lot attempting to get the message to send..
like a therapist?
It's actually often best not to tell the police if your life is not in serious danger because they could force you to leave the home. Your family would probably be upset with the idea. Friendship is really good and can be used to accommodate. A lot of parents realize that doing that sort of stuff doesn't work eventually. If the step mom is a bad bad person then try to get some people nearby like a good adult in the family to stand up to her without her knowing that you told anyone, don't make it obvious. If she can learn a bit about how to be a good parent then try to get the message across. It could even be as simple as leaving a manual of how to discipline children without violence. What can I do from where I live? I don't know the situation at all. How violent is she? It sounds as if she's horrible but I don't know how you feel, I need more information and there's only so much I can do from here.
If that's available and won't lead to more trouble then yes, a therapist is supposed to be able to tell very private information during a session only to other mental health workers that are appropriate to tell if it's not a serious danger. If it is then it may lead to you being forced out of the home.
It's not sending.
It's actually often best not to tell the police if your life is not in serious danger because they could force you to leave the home. Your family would probably be upset with the idea. Friendship is really good and can be used to accommodate. A lot of parents realize that doing that sort of stuff doesn't work eventually. If the step mom is a bad bad person then try to get some people nearby like a good adult in the family to stand up to her without her knowing that you told anyone, don't make it obvious. If she can learn a bit about how to be a good parent then try to get the message across. It could even be as simple as leaving a manual of how to discipline children without violence. What can I do from where I live? I don't know the situation at all. How violent is she? It sounds as if she's horrible but I don't know how you feel, I need more information and there's only so much I can do from here. I hope this is for safety reasons and not for revenge reasons.
uhhhhhhhhhhh.......i might see her in about 2 hours soooooooooooo
I don't want to help with revenge when I don't know the situation at all. So I want to help with coping strategies. How is she constantly abusive? Can't you fight back?
you should tell a bff or real mom or dad because I have the same issues I asked my dad a question he said shhh she said d@** you are making everything worse I left and she always blame me because she said it was probably that little girl killed the fish and I didn't so just tell someone like bff, dad ,real mom, aunt, cuzin, anyone
I am not getting along with my stepmom and I said leave me alone and she thought I said "STFU Bitch" when I never did
Same thing with me like i wasnt in front of the TV i was just getting ready to turn the remote off ( when she saw me on home screen ) along playstation ( was on home screen ) she yelled back up little fat head or i will ground you for 999999999999999 years ) ( she said it acting like she doesnt know what a play station home looks like and doesnt know i am putting it away when i am ) she also made me cry
Also she was being Reseeti mean like the mole from animal crossing yelling loud and being mean to make me feel hurt
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