My partner is only 30 but she is not willing to have sex atleast a single tim in a couple of month?

i would suggest you and her take a long realaxing vacation and mabie go out for drinks and mabie go back to your hotel room and pop the question! but dont forget even though you probly are drunk and dont want kids use protection. also mabie if that dosnt work try motion lotion. you can find motion lotion at your local walmart or the mall!
love, sexiandiknoit

If you love her and want to stay with her, tell her you'll always be there for her. Don't try any ultra-romantic endeavors or begging. One night when you're alone and you're both comfortable, you have no choice but to ask her. Tell her you're a man and that you have certain needs and tell her everything that you love about her. Then ask her why and tell her whatever it is you'll be there for her. If it's personal or behavioral, she's afraid. If it's moral she's ashamed. If it's medical, then sex might be painful. There is an answer for each. But find out, this is why men play around and then she's gone forever.