... He changed so much for the better and I took him back as I really love him. He s so good to me but he did say if we broke up this time He would be ok and completely let go because he knows he s compleypy put in 100% and he needs to protect himself and not get hurt by holding on. I went into panic mode terrified he s going to leave me. Why has my insecureties kicked in so bad? Why am I hurting and scared? Is it normal for me to feel this way?
Answers (2)
I personally think a broken relationship can be healed, simply because people have the capability to change. However, if my partner said that he would be ok if we broke up I probably would have doubts that he really liked me. The best action to do is to talk about it. There is a possibility that he just wanted you to feel better, to show you that he's not a mess and can function as a single human being. Good luck.