My parents and i have never had that relationship where i can talk to them about anything or where i actually feel like a family. I still love them but I just realized how dumb i have been. Life has been realy hard and i didnt realize how im kinda cutting my family off. I can never talk to them freely because they would always see things in a way i dont mean to present it in. I realized how much i hurt them and i actually sometimes dont even see it. Im really mad at my self and i dont know how to make it up to them. I have amazing parents but i often wonder why they got someone like me. I feel like they deserve better. I have no idea what im gonna do. Most answers are probably gonna be talk to them, but its really hard. I have had thoughts about suicide but i always talk myself out of it. What do i do???
My Parents and I have a very messed up relationship?
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- 3+ months ago by chocolate...
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- family, love, talk, feel, parent, relationship, parents, relationships
Responses (2)
The first line of defense against depression and anxiety is B vitamins. Get nutritional yeast powder and/or B-100 pills. Vitamin B2 is a water soluble dye that turns urine bright yellow. When the color fades, it's time for another dose. Read some books about nutrition so you know how to eat right.
This can be a very complicated one and sounds like has gradually happened in a long time frame.
Talking to them immediately could complicate things even more deeper as this is not your usual relationship and can feel very awkward. It may help if you fix this problem in a slower way. Start by having your presence close to your parents all the time but don't talk too much, for example sitting on the couch as if you are watching tv but be on your laptop or find something to eat in the kitchen when they are at the dinning table or kitchen. During this time do not show any negative emotions, just do this casually, and very soon they will say something to you. When this happens you have to let your guard down and do not counter what they say instead make it sound like you understood and don't talk too much, let them do all the talking. The more they see you are understanding the more closer they will get to you and will start to have their approach much more softer. You and your parents may not agree on a lot of things and will help if you accept that, what's important is you maintain your connection by building on what you and your parents may have in common and ignore the ones you don't agree on.
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