I've been going out more. Like literally just outside my house since we're all neighbors. Me and my mom are..well were really close but now she seems mad at me. It's only been a week but a week is too long when you feel like this bad of a person, ya know? I don't know what it is. Yesterday she said I "traded her" for them. But I thought my parents wanted me to get out more. I just can't keep feeling like this and I don't know what to do. I love her to death but I'm 16. I need friends. We can't even be in the same room without it being awkward.
My mom seems mad at me?
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- 3+ months ago by darionash...
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Hi! well your sixteen and your going to go out. I think you need to explain to your parents that you want to go out but you need to set aside some quality time for your family. So go out and do things your and your mum like doing together and then other days go out with your friends. Your family are going to have to accept that your going to spend time with your friends. My sisters 16 and does this and spends time with our mum and they are closer than ever. You just have to get that balance of family time and social time. Hope this helps, good luck!
You're sixteen and most sixteen year olds feel like that. They feel like awkward when they're in the same room with each other. I have this same problem too, but its with my dad. My dad and cannot stand each other anymore, now that I'm 17, I want to go out more...like outside and hang out and do stuff my way. But my mom and dad told me that I am... from now on...supposed to hang out with my dad...like do fishing or go see a baseball game. My dad and I butt heads over each other about stuff he wants to do and stuff I want to do. But then, that's when my dad wouldn't talk to me. I kept asking mom if anything I can do with dad...like make him feel better, but she wouldn't talk about it with me. So then...I got tickets to go see a NYK game in New York and when I got there with my friends, I got a text from my dad telling me I need to talk to him. Why, I couldn't even text dad because right when I got his message, my phone died. Then I watched the NYK game until it was time to go home. When I got home, Dad's face looked angry. I swallowed hard, and that's when I saw Mom crying. I asked mom what was going on. She couldn't talk to me. Dad grabbed my arm and shoved me to my bedroom. He went in and I swear, his expression made me want to vomit right there. I had eaten too many things when I was at the game. I swear to God, I did throw up on myself...all over myself actually and Dad shoved me to the bathroom. What was I doing there? I was just puking...my stomach wouldn't handle all that food. Dad was talking to mom, mom was bawling her eyes out. I can't stand my dad. I caught dad saying that I needed more time with him since I have been hanging out with my friends for the last couple of months. I was worried that if I hung out with dad, this might be the end of my life. My dad told me that he'd KILL me if he ever saw me hanging out with friends, or with mom. I guess you could say I am in big trouble huh?
If you feel like this is making you even more nervous...I'd suggest you'd go with the person who answered you first. That person knows more than me...
Its awkward like that for me too. You're seeing changes in yourself, and perhaps your mother as well. This happens to me ALL. THE. TIME. But its with my uncle Joe. He wants me to hang out with my cousin Kelly. But its just no fun...I mean, Kelly LOVES to beat me up on purpose, and blame things she does to herself on me. I mean, I try to get along with her, but I cant for some random reason. Whatever you need to do to help yourself, I'd suggest you'd look at your mom in the eyes, and just say "Mom, I need to talk to you. I really think you need to spend time on your own, and have me to spend time with my own friends. Then, maybe I can hang out with you later." If she says okay, then well...you'll be happy. But if she asks you why, just say that you like your friends. You should definitely find some quality time with your family than just friends.
