I just started highschool and my mom is talking about having another child because her boyfriend doesn't have any and wants to have a baby with him, and my sister had 2 kids aged 10 and 3 my sister no longer talks to my mother over a dispute of her being kicked out. she had her first when I was 6 so I never really had a childhood to grow up and was always jealous or unhappy since I struggled with depression and severe anxiety in 5th grade. My sister is 25 and I'm 15, I honestly don't know what to do because I don't want another sibling cause I want to grow up without having to deal with another responsibility I don't want anything to do with. I just want to be able to be calm and happy and be able to have kids when I'm older but I also feel like with my mother having another it will distance me from her and make me not want to, want to have kids anymore.
My mom is almost 50 and wants another kid?
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- 3+ months ago by whatsquac...
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Answers (4)
That is not really your choice though. At 15 you have another 3 years until you are a legal adult, focus on your school, sport, friends and so on, rather than your unhappiness. Graduate with good grades and you can move to the dorms of a great university and your home "problem" disappears anyway. :-)
It would be rather unwise. High chance of miscarriage and severe disabilities, starting from ~40yo. Beyond your own stake in the matter she ought to consult a physician first, at the very least.
If they wish to take care of a child, adoption is a possibility.
www . pregnancy-period . com/pregnancy_after_50.html
How's your relationship with your sister? When & why was she evicted? Anything to do with the teen pregnancy?