my mom once asked me if i knew what it was and i said yes. She briefly told me the story of when she got it. She didn't tell me her age but she said that her mother had NEVER talked about it so she never knew that this would happen until it happened. And i guess my mom grew up to be like her mother because she never talks about it and i have no one to turn to, i only have a brother and he is clueless. what do i do?