Basically, I feel like my parents are complete control freaks when it comes to my life. I'm not allowed to even manage my own bank account (or look at it) and I'm 20 years old. I plan to move out within the next two months but I am afraid to tell them because they will say I am "destroying the family". I'm just wondering what is the best way to handle this situation?
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You should just move out (and get your bank account) and make sure from now on your income is filed under your name. Let them know maybe a few days before you do it. I'm not saying to never visit them, but keep contact at a minimal. It sounds like one or both of your parents have Narcissistic personality disorder, which is very bad to live around. Your 20, and even when living with them that doesn't give them the right to control your life or bank account. Just make sure you have a plan first before moving out.