I would like some kind of ordained officiant and he has a strong preference towards a priest. I have no idea what to do! I never ever imagined having a priest marry me. I am not Catholic and I have absolutely no desire for any type of mass or anything associated with a traditional catholic ceremony. Also, I will not budge on an outdoor wedding. He likes the idea but from what I've heard and read it's extremely difficult to find a priest to marry out of a church. I'm totally stuck and don't know what to do