My loved one passed away?

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My loved one passed away, and I have serious depressions?!?
Okay so my loved one passed away about 4 months ago, around February . He lives in Vietnam and so do I, but I moved to America 3 yrs ago, We were close friends ever since little, he was like a big brother to me, we grew up together . And I realized as I got older I start catching feelings for him. He was really caring &sweer, were 6 ages apart but it don't matter. Last last summer it was 2013 I visited Vietnam, it was literally the best year ever because he started catches feelings for me too ! I was happy, but as soon as I left Vietnam to go back to America we still communicate by texting, but one day I received a shocking news from my mom . She said that he passed away from blood cancer, I broke down crying nonstop , for so many weeks , no eating jus tears , I jus can't believe he's gone forever I can never hear his voice again . 4 months passed by I was getting better but then as soon I visited Vietnam again for summer , I am currently living with my grandparents and cousins rn, and his house is really close from mine only 2 houses away but whenever I pass his house, I jus can't hold in the tears knowing he's not here nomore. I visited his house today and grave and was crying my eyes out , it hurts knowing he's not here with me nomore , why God have to take him away from me and this world! I'm jus broken rn and I don't know what to do ! Can someone please talk to me and give me sum advice ? Thank you ! <3. And any good songs for a loved one that passed away ?

We never dated we just had feelings for each other. And I feel so damn bad because from the past I was being so mean to him i ignored his text :'( and all that stuff. All I want is to hear his voice again ;( we don't got any  pictures together ugh ! I'm broken guys ! Help please !

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i think if you have some type of memorial for him that you make yourself it would give you someone to talk to as always a link to your friend is really what you need one made by you mabe you can contact his mom and relatives so you could get a picture burn innsense make a couple of candles get ahold of his mom to find a picture or mabe theres one you can get from someone you need to cry to have a higher power help you the angels are the best they say god does things for a reason he mabe needed him up in heaven he is watching over you and keeping you safe thats his moral ability look at it like the lord is needing him up there now its a better place and the lord is taking care of him in turn hes looking after you

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The loss of a loved one is not natural, it hurts very much and bring great discomfort. 
There are various ways to cope but time will be the best way to allow yourself to feel better.
Your biggest support system will come from God.The Bible assures us: &ldquo;Jehovah is near to those that are broken at heart; and those who are crushed in spirit he saves.&rdquo; (Psalm 34:18) Yes, more than anything else, a relationship  with God can help you to cope with the death of someone you love.
In addition, do not underestimate the value of prayer. The Bible urges us: &ldquo;Throw your burden upon Jehovah himself, and he himself will sustain you.&rdquo; (Psalm 55:22) If talking out your feelings with a sympathetic friend can help, how much more will pouring out your heart to &ldquo;the God of all comfort&rdquo; help you!​&mdash;2 Corinthians 1:3.

It is not that prayer simply makes us feel better. The &ldquo;Hearer of prayer&rdquo; promises to give holy spirit to his servants who sincerely ask for it. (Psalm 65:2; Luke 11:13) And God&rsquo;s holy spirit, or active force, can equip you with &ldquo;power beyond what is normal&rdquo; to go from one day to the next. (2 Corinthians 4:7) Remember: God can help his faithful servants to endure any and every problem they may face.
This and many other gems can be found in the brochure when someone you loved dies, published by Jehovah's Witnesses. Check out jw.org for even more help

My loved one passed away?

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