For every thing a daughter should share with her mother.i have four children and i have many problems.when i share my feelings with my daughter she says thats ur problem.she doesnt love me she doesnt share anything with me.she will nt talk freely with her brothers and sissters.i will do very hard work for her.when i say something she beats herself.what should i do now ? Is thats my mistake ?
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Hi,
Your daughter does love you. Her not sharing things with you is not because she doesn't love you. You need to work on your relationship with your daughter, let her know that you are there to listen all the time. You could always start by asking her general questions about her day, however if she doesn't want to express her feelings and converse about her day you can always try again the next day. Don't force her to share because she won't. She will soon become more comfortable to share with you more personal things or things that bothering her. Don't focus on when she won't listen to your problems. Strengthen your relationship with her and hopefully she'll feel she can share with you and then she will start asking you about how your feeling. This may take a while but it is a great feeling when you get to the place where you can both share everything.
Hope this helped.