Example: We had guest coming to our house and house is not clean ..he asked if i need any help cooking..since my mother in law was helping i said no..he was happily watching ipad.. I said look the house is dirty you can clean by vacuuming and folding blankets...he said do it yourself first..i said you will do what you like and not what i say ..then he vacuumed the room..but again went and watched iPad ..the time is getting close for the guests to come and the rooms need to be organized a bit..i have a 6 month old baby and it was time to feed him...I got frustated and with little angry told see you told you will help but you are doing nothing ..why can't you fold blankets...I was making the baby sleep...he came upstairs and twisted my hand ..pushed me to the wall and with his hand pressed my throat very badly and hardly that i couldn't swallow properly food for 3 days ..it was hurting badly when i swallow something or talk loudly.I cried a lot ..the person who I love really don't care how badly it hurt me my throat was paining so badly..this is not the first time ..he beat me many times by pulling my hair ,slapping on my birthday as i didn't listen to him.I love him more than anything but his behavior towards me ..i don't feel like loving him anymore
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That is know way this will get better it's only gonna get worse please get out and take that baby if he can hurt you and says he loves you than the baby will be next he needs help that you can not do and first he has to see that for his self don't think you can do it cause you can't please be safe
He doesn't love you, he loves the control over you, and loves seeing you fail and get hurt, and he doesn't care how badly you get hurt. I've been in a similar situation and I got choked to death only one time before I went to a friend, but before that happened, l would get asked where are you and didn't know who was on the other end and asked who it was, and he says: who do you think it is, it's your boyfriend, in a yelling voice, l was scared for my life cause sheen I thought I should tell him where l was, he didn't believe me. The night he choked me he had forced me to drink with him, in my aunt's house while they were sleeping and forced me to make a pizza and eat it with him and as he's playing the choking game, he says stuff about my family and how they are stupid and retarded and glue my aunt's fat and how if l don't listen to him I'm gonna be just like them, l almost Blacked out and called my friend and the following Monday l called the cops and filled a report. He was arrested, and now, I fear for the child he has and for his wife. If you can get out and seek help. I sought help and so can you. My heart goes out to you and your child. I'll be praying for you. :'(