so he wants to pay off his car fast and wants my help- he is willing to pay half and wants me to pay the other half. This will require me blocking my upcoming 3 paychecks ( I get paid once a month) I wont even drive his car as I have my own. I am willing to pay half the rent but paying for his expensive car??? Is that fair? Or am I being irrational?
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He is having a temper tantrum because he did not get his way. You must have cleaned up some others things for him before (whether financially or emotionally) and he thinks he can bully you into this as well. You need to stick to your decision and try and reach a balance which is acceptable to both of you
oh wow youre so right! I just got done paying $10,000 for something. It was for both of us but I paid for it.
Thanks a lot for your advice!
Your husband needs to feel those kahonies that he has hanging and start acting like a man. He should be taking the lead in the majority of all the financial payment that concerns the both of you. I'm sure he has no problem feeling the swelling of his kohonies when you are for-filling your wifely duties, best of luck in the future.
thats what I said and we got into a huge fight! Dont know what to do now.