Hi,
If I report my bipolar husbands violece to the police. I'm in Florida where this is not handled lightly I just want to have it put down. Not more! But I don't want him to have bad records where future employers look them up and never employ him again! Can I just go to the police station and say that the last violence happened 10 days ago (it's frequent, maybe twice per month) or is it now too late to report it. Like I said: I don't want him arrested for sure, I have zero money to pay for our place, no job, lost all my weight, can't work, all relatives died! and no friends in the US either! And nowhere to go. I'm in no condition to go into a shelter and I'm not scared of my husband that he could seriously harm me! I just want to pay him finally a lesson to report the incidents without him having bad records. We are planning once I have my papers to go to europe to get free medical treatment as a last try for our marriage. I also believe he's very ill. His diagnoses is bipolar rapid cycling. A very old psychiatrist, very expensive,overdosed him,2 bad experiences and now we wait for Europe.
My husband has attacked me (not like an abuser causing blue eyes) but more getting out of control in mania or depression trying to make me stop to speak when I was very calm and mild. Mildly kicking me, throwing stuff at me, hitting me with towels and with his hand on my arm, threatening me, bruises, it happened around 60 times in the last 2 years since we married. Like I said I just want to pay him a lesson in the hope that he will then know he can't do whatever he wants to me! without causing him a bad record! Or arresting him!