... to him or with him!! I have a 14 year old son from a prior relationship that ended 13 years ago and I feel he needs to learn how to be handy so I bought some building materials and decided to build a workout room in the back yard with my son. My husband does not know how to build anything because he lived a very sheltered life and his mom basically took him shopping rather then get dirty and if something broke around the house dad just called someone to come fix it. me on the other hand was raised around building things getting dirty and if something breaks I had to fix it. I was a single mom up till 4 years ago so I'm very independent which my husband loves but when he found out I'm doing this project with my son he is giving me a really hard time. I asked if he wants to help and he says nope. What should I do. Am I overreacting when I tell him he's being selfish. Why is he acting like this? We have a 1 year old together but I am very good at juggling my attention around. I will spend quality time with my daughter and then my quality time with my son is doing this project. My husband works out while I'm hanging with my daughter and when he's done I say I'm going outside with my son and he just makes me feel like shit. He tells me my priorities are messed up and I'm making him stay in the house on baby duty. I tell him to come outside and he says why so I can chase our daughter around!!! What the hell is going on? Why is he acting like this??