My husband dose not want sex it's been like this for a year or two now what could be wong?

Is it any possibily he is cheating ?

If you are really long toghether in relationships man can get bored of same thing all over and over again , to keep sexual life active it should be " spicen up "

has he been to the doctor for an exam to make sure everythng is ok? If so, then the only person who can tell you is your husband - have you talked abt this at all?

Hey, not much information to go on! Are you long term partners, older, younger couple? Have you enjoyed a fulfilling sex life in the past, any marital problems, do you still love one another?? A million questions I could ask and would need answering before any conclusions are drawn!! There are a million reasons too! Lot's of guys loose interest in sex and there are so many reasons for this. The worst case scenario is that he could be having and affair and his overwhelming guilt about cheating on you results in him not being able to have sex with you. He could be worried about financial matters, work matters or health matters. Is he a sensitive man? If he is then it will not take much to put him off sex. He could be experiencing ED problems.. {erection dysfunction}. This can occur in the healthiest of males, young and old. There are remedies and your GP will advise you. You do need to talk to him { your husband} Ask him what's wrong. You are obviously missing that closeness that sex can bring in a relationship. He needs to know that. If you love him then tell him that. Approach him with sensitivity, tell him that you will listen and understand and not get angry or upset with whatever he tells you. This problem needs to be bought out into the open. To let it linger or go on and on will only worsen matters for you both. Not having sex will become the 'norm' in your relationship and you will learn to 'do without' and he the same. There is a reason for your husbands abstaining from sex with you and you need to find out what that reason is. Talk to your GP. He will not be able to disclose too much { do you both have the same GP?} Try getting your husband to talk to his GP. Men are funny creatures, especially when it comes down to their sexual prowess. If he is struggling then he needs some help as do thousands of other men. You are a partnership, you share the same problems, his problem is yours... tell your husband that...work as a team to resolve your difficulty.