Anytime the boys have homework or anything to do with school he never helps he only sits and takes care of our daughter. I could be doing homework, cooking dinner, baking cookies for my sons class, and having a battle with my 14-year-old all at the same time and he will just sit there and play with our daughter!!! This Morning my sons alarm clock went off and it did not wake him up because we stayed up late last night doing homework so after a minute of it going off my husband got up to go turn it off and couldn't figure it out so he threw it and now there's glass on the floor!!!
Is this right or wrong?I'm just wondering? We don't get home till 630 at night and it's rare I ever get to hang out with my daughter because I have so many things to do. It's frustrating.:(
My husband doesn't help me with my 2 boys he only help take care of our daughter?
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- 3+ months ago by Deepmindz
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- school, boy, daughter, husband, homework, care, boys, schools
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It is good that he loves his daughter so much, that much is right. You need to start by encouraging him. Complement him for his devotion to his daughter.
It is not good if he leaves the boys all to you. You need to talk to him about the situation, BUT before going to him, try to think of good things he does for your boys (I would write down 3-5 good things). Encourage him for those things.
Then, tell him about how stressed you are, and suggest some ways he could help (think of 2-3 very simple ways as a start or an example). Most importantly, don’t let the conversation end in anger because anger is not motivational (“do not let the sun go down on your anger”).