... use his money to get our dog to the vet bc i didnt have money which i also completely am okay wiyh paying the complete amount.. Even tho its our dog. Then i also had to use his money to buy groceries diapers etc for our 3 kids all under 4 yrs old. I dont feel i should have to pay the entire amount of that back.. Since he ate the groceries as well .. Im confused how splitting money in a marriage is supposed to be.. But i then needed to buy our kids coats so i borrows funds off my grandmother to do so but he now refuses to help me pay that back so i have to pay all of that. I have to pay for our bed on my own which he sleeps in he dont pay a penny. He makes me pay him back for providing anything for the kids? Is that normal? Also, he only pays 120. For his van and 65. For our household internet. I pay 300 hydro bill and 190 for our gas bill we split our rent equally. I just guess i feel taken advantage of.. Is this normal am i over reacting. I obv got my child tax and i figured i owe his 560.00 which w.e for half the food the dog bill n the steam cleaner.. But he said 660 but i dont feel i should be paying for all the food only to now buy more groceries this week again.. Wheres his contribution