... with depression or something. I recently drank knowing I shouldn't. I was being aggressive in the car and started a fight which lead to us being physical. Which then led to him giving me a black eye....what do I do. This isn't the first physical fight, just the first obvious one. I have been no angle either. Don't know where to turn
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my suggestion is to leave automatically and don't talk to him and find another life without him but if he suggests that is the right thing to do then you may have to do that as soon as possible if it leads to that area. But the choice is yours and if you still love him tell him that your still in love with him everyday with him and it can lead to a happy or sad ending. but it is ok to move on if he needs to be removed badly.
I feel like I have changed so much for him since we started our relationship at 16. He is always wanting to bring out the best in me by telling me better ways to do things or say things. I have want wanTed to cut my hair but he says he won't like it bit do what I want. I want to go out and be social and we never do. At this point it is normal and I don't fight it. I hardly talk at home. I know I am a beautiful fun 25 almost 26 yr old but I have to hide that side for his homebody life. Doesn't want kids for a while, even after 10 yrs together. He says I have depression but the more I think about it I think he is causing it. Especially after our last physical fight, mostly bc of alcohol. Other fights are daily. We decided I shouldn't drink. Where do you trun for help with a verbally physically abusive marrage/long term relationship???
Depression or anything like that is horrible as it makes you feel like there is no point anymore and different. As a person who has seen depression and its affects first hand i would recommend going to the doctors just to check if you have it or not, that way if you do you can think a responsabe way of dealing with it. If this is the case go to proffesionals like groups, doctors, people who will help and you will trust. You will also need a wide range of people you can trust.
Hope this isnt the case.
I'm ready to go to the doc for the depression now I just have to wait til the black eye is gone. I was planning on going today good thinng im off until Jan